Your Code: My Fear of Speaking Up

Have you ever wondered how to improve your communication, public speaking, and leadership skills? Do you ever wonder why you can't seem to get it right when it comes to public speaking? But let me tell you something: when we first come into this world, speaking is not something we are good at right away. When we first came out, the first thing we did was cry, which was a means for us to send messages and communicate with our loved ones that we had arrived in this world.

Having confidence when we talk, socialize, and interact with other people greatly affects our communication with others. But, not all people have the same skills when it comes to public speaking and leadership, but remember that skills can be learned. Not all people start out being good at speaking. We are all capable of learning and improving ourselves, especially when it comes to speaking.

I'm about to tell you a story about a girl who is happy with her life. She's a little girl who is constantly happy to play and build new friendships. She is always smiling and laughing, and she feels at ease with her playmates and family. In front of other people, though, she was usually nervous and shy. And the time came when she finally became a high school student. She was taken aback by how comfortable the other students were speaking in front of a large group of students and teachers. Until it’s her turn to speak up in front, do you know what happened to her? She kept on buckling speaking, and her classmates laughed at her. Her voice changed into a tiny girl's voice as if she wanted to escape from there and hide from the world. The happy little girl became a dull young girl, a girl who had lost hope and preferred to hide in the dark. She sobbed uncontrollably till she fell asleep. She's terrified of speaking up, facing people, and of disappointing herself once more. Many others, including her relatives, chuckled and wondered, "Why is she so weird?" afraid of speaking up.

Until one day, she met this K-pop group that changed her life. They are a group of seven boys called "BTS," or Bangtan Sonyeondan. These seven boys made her feel love and made her realize many things. They made the girl turn back into a happy girl and not be afraid of speaking up anymore. Even though their language is different, she can understand them through their music. She feels loved and feels the urge to start speaking up.

She then realized how important it was to enhance her speaking abilities, and she finally realized that she needed to step outside of her comfort zone and begin exploring the real world, a world where she is free and not afraid to interact with others. She begins to identify all of her flaws and reveals her true self. The young girl became interested and began asking all the questions she had. She began to study vocabulary by reading books, dictionaries, and watching videos. She practiced and practiced speaking until she finally believed in herself and knew she could do it. She always wanted to be a better person, a girl who isn't scared to speak her mind, and now she has the opportunity to do so. The girl can now communicate with herself and convey what she wants.

If you want to improve yourself, start right away and never doubt your abilities.

Make yourself feel the love you deserve by becoming the person you want to be. If you want those things to happen to you and you believe in yourself, there is nothing impossible. Begin by describing who you are, what you desire, and how you feel. You are the one who controls yourself, sends messages, and causes yourself to feel and say what you want.

So, will you send them your codes?